The Ultimate Florida Girlfriend Weekend: No Beach Required

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Champagne Bar at Oxford Exchange, a multi-use entertainment space perfect for a girlfriend trip to Tampa
Kickoff your friend trip to Tampa with bubbles at The Champagne Bar. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Over the past 20 years, I’ve probably traveled to Tampa more than a dozen times to visit my sister. But here’s the funny part: I’ve never actually vacationed there. Our girl trip get-togethers always ended up at nearby Gulf Coast beaches.

So I set out to answer one question: What would a girlfriend weekend in Tampa look like with no beach time?

The answer surprised me. If you think Florida fun begins and ends with sand, this weekend itinerary might change your mind.

Is This Tampa Girlfriend Weekend Right for You?

Two women eating at a table in front of a colorful mural of a girl with an ice cream and a dog in Tampa
Get a scoop or shake from the Armature Works’ outpost of Chill Bros., Tampa’s local artisanal ice cream. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

This itinerary is ideal if you:

  • Love food-focused travel and Michelin-recognized restaurants
  • Enjoy walkable neighborhoods, history and waterfront views
  • Prefer cocktails, spas and boutique hotels over theme parks
  • Are planning a two- or three-day girlfriend trip

Skip it if your group wants a beach vacation. This itinerary is for friends who’d rather eat, stroll, sip and explore than spend the day in the sand.

Editor’s note: The writer was partially hosted.

Weekend Itinerary for the Perfect Tampa Girls’ Trip

Tampa coordinates mural at Sparkman Wharf
Tampa’s murals are great backdrops for group photos. Find this one at Sparkman Wharf. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Are you ready to explore off the beaten path? Let us inspire you!

Friday Evening in Downtown Tampa

Pirate water taxi boat on the Hillsborough River in Tampa Florida a fun way to get around on a girlfriend weekend
Wait for water taxis at the marked dock locations. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Pirate Happy Hour: Channel your inner wench with a 90-minute narrated tour aboard the Pirate Water Taxi. It’s a great introduction to Tampa’s history with plenty of fun facts and dad jokes. Hail the boat at Stop 1 (Florida Aquarium), enjoy drinks on board and ride to Stop 16 (Armature Works).

Dinner at Armature Works: In the early 1900s, Tampa’s streetcars were dispatched from this riverfront depot, which has since been transformed into a food hall and entertainment center. If your group mood is casual, gather at picnic tables with a variety of entrees including sushi, pizza, BBQ and empanadas.

Olive green loveseat with dinner plates on an antique trunk at Oak and Ola, an Armature Works' friend trip restaurant in Tampa
Just you and your bestie? This table for two is perfect at Oak & Ola. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Or make a reservation at one of the sit-down restaurants. Oak & Ola is a solid choice with a seasonal menu of EuroAmerican classics served in an airy dining room with a window wall open to the river when the weather’s nice.

White Adirondack chairs with the Tampa evening skyline in the background
Enjoy after-dinner drinks on the lawn at Armature Works for a twinkling skyline view. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Lawn and Lights: After dinner, you can bring to-go drinks out to the Armature Works lawn and lounge under twinkle lights in Adirondack chairs overlooking the Hillsborough River. Or head to M. Bird, the rooftop club for DJs and dancing.

Saturday Morning: Hyde Park and Tampa Riverwalk

Because Nothing Happens Before Caffeine: Get started with coffee and a toasted bagel at Sesame. They offer several house-crafted spreads; the scallion was crisply zingy without being overwhelmingly oniony. Prefer sweet to savory? The Cookie Monster spread features Oreo-infused cream cheese.

SheBuysTravel Tip: Another solid breakfast option is Supernatural Food & Wine. Food Network’s Alton Brown declared their BEC the best breakfast sandwich ever.” I agree. House-baked focaccia cradles a cooked-to-perfection omelette, thick-cut bacon, cheddar and the house sauce. Nosh on a sourdough donut while you wait for your sammie. Go early or expect to queue up at this tiny eatery.

Pastel pink and green seating area in Stoney Clover Lane store in Tampa Florida
Custom bags created at Stoney Clover Lane are a great trip souvenir, and this store seating area is perfect for posing. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Maker Moment: Hyde Park Village, an upscale outdoor retail complex in a historic residential neighborhood, has multiple “make your own” experiences to fit your group vibe.

  • Bag collectors: Personalize a make-up bag or tote with patches and custom embroidery at Stoney Clover Lane.
  • Wannabe cowgirls: At Coastal Cowgirl Collective, decorate your choice of hat with sassy patches, chains, charms, feathers and florals.
  • Homebodies: Pour your own at The Candle Pour, which features over 100 different fragrance oils.
  • Swifties: Design your own friendship bracelets at The Bead Bar inside the Little Words Project.

SheBuysTravel Tip: I recommend doing this in the morning because some of the items, like candles or custom embroidery, will need to be picked up later in the day.

Silver spires of the University of Tampa minarets viewed from the Tampa Museum of Art
The minarets date back to the original 1891 Tampa Bay Hotel that later became part of the University of Tampa. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Art and River Views: Tour the Tampa Museum of Art. There’s something for everyone in this boutique museum, including the best views of the University of Tampa’s unique silver minarets. Exhibit spaces include ancient Greek and Etruscan artifacts, a winged Chevy and two paintings by contemporary American painter Mark Bradford, who was commissioned to create a monumental artwork for the Obama Presidential Center in Chicago.

Saturday Afternoon: Ybor City and Spa Time

Plate of broiled oysters at Ulele, a fine dining restaurant in Tampa Florida
Lift the cheese-topped broiled oysters from their shell and eat atop a baguette slice for Ulele’s best bite. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Legendary Flavors: According to local legend, Ulele, the Tocobaga chief’s daughter, stopped the execution of a Spanish explorer, 80 years before the more familiar Pocahontas met John Smith. She’s the inspiration for outdoor sculptures and native flavors featured at this riverfront restaurant located next to Water Works Park. The char-broiled oysters and Gulf grouper were standouts during my meal.

SheBuysTravel Tip: The food scene’s legit in Tampa. Ulele’s Michelin-recommended. Another excellent option is Bar Terroir. Behind the forgettable strip mall exterior lies a moody, intimate bistro with the best steak frites I’ve eaten outside of France.

Centro Ybor facade with historic streetcar in the foreground in Tampa Florida
Tampa’s free electric streetcar runs from downtown to Ybor City. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Explore Ybor: Take the free TECO historic streetcar from downtown to Ybor City to discover how Tampa grew from a swamp with 700 inhabitants to a booming metro area with over 3,000,000 residents. Watch the 7-minute film in the Visitor Center on 7th Avenue to learn about Vicente Martinez-Ybor, a Spaniard exiled from Cuba who relocated his cigar manufacturing company from Key West in 1885. During its heyday in the early ’20s, “Cigar City” had over 200 factories and an immigrant workforce of Spaniards, Cubans, Italians, Romanians and Germans produced hundreds of millions of cigars annually.

Tampa and Miami engage in a friendly “Who’s got the better Cuban sandwich?” debate. The Tampa Cuban adds Genoa salami to represent the city’s Italian immigrants. Try it for yourself at Flor Fina, the restaurant inside Ybor’s boutique Hotel Haya.

Tampa Bay Tours guide Max Herman in Jose Marti Park, legally owned by Cuba.
A popular Ybor City Halloween costume involves dressing like well-known local tour guide Max Herman in his signature guayabera shirt and fedora. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

SheBuysTravel Tip: If you and your friends are history buffs, include a guided tour if your itinerary permits. Ybor native Max Herman offers tours focusing on cigars, food or ghosts. Or book a factory tour at J.C. Newman, the only remaining cigar manufacturer in Tampa. They also offer “roll your own” classes if your group’s particularly interested in the city’s cigar culture.

Pool with navy lounge chairs and an orange seating area at the Epicurean Hotel, Autograph Collection in Tampa
The Epicurean Hotel pool is a great place for an afternoon hang on a girlfriend trip to Tampa. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Chill Out: Swim or spa. Depending on the weather and season, you can soak up the sun by the pool or relax with an indulgent spa treatment. I had both options at the Epicurean Hotel. Summer storms discouraged me from spending time at the pool, so I opted for a relaxing Swedish massage at Spa Evangeline.

SheBuysTravel Tip: If your hotel or Airbnb doesn’t have a pool, don’t despair. Purchase guest access and reserve loungers and cabanas at many of Tampa’s luxury resort pools through ResortPass.

Saturday Night: Dinner Cruise and Sparkman Wharf

Cherry cocktail onboard Craft Tampa, a floating dinner cruise
My pre-sail cocktail is a Cass St. Cherry Spritz with Tito’s and ginger beer. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Floating Food: Dinner cruise aboard Craft Tampa. The European-style longship departs from a Channelside Drive dock and features a 3-course fine dining experience with plenty of golden hour photo time on deck.

After Dark: Drinks at Sparkman Wharf. This lively entertainment center, adjacent to the Craft dock, is constructed of brightly painted shipping containers surrounding the Lighthaus Beer Garden. Check the Sparkman Wharf calendar for events like trivia nights and live music.

Sunday: Bayshore Boulevard and Brunch

Bayshore Fitness Trail equipment along Tampa Bay's greenway trail
Early morning or after dinner are prime times to walk along Bayshore Boulevard in downtown Tampa. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

By the Beautiful Bay: Soak up the sun and log your steps with a walk along the Bayshore Boulevard Greenway. There are fitness stations if you want to round out your workout with some reps.

Check-out time.

Sun-filled atrium at Oxford Exchange in Tampa, a multi-feature public space
Oxford Exchange is a must for shopping, dining and hanging out in Tampa. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Brunch: Recap the weekend at one of America’s most Instagrammable restaurants, according to Food Network. Tables surround a fountain in the sunlit, plant-filled atrium at Oxford Exchange. A highlight of the menu I can’t wait to try when I’m back in town is the shareable brunch tower featuring mini frittatas, crispy fried chicken, bacon, sausage, cinnamon roll, French toast and smoked salmon. Add bubbles to toast out your weekend.

Boutique gifts and books on display in Oxford Exchange in Tampa Florida
I wanted to buy all the things at Oxford Exchange but settled on my next book club read. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

SheBuysTravel Tip: The Restaurant at Oxford Exchange is super popular, so you’ll need a reservation. And plan to spend time checking out the retail spaces in the restored 1891 stable. There’s an “I want it all” boutique and bookstore plus coffee, tea and champagne bars, depending on what your “one for the road” feels like.

Where to Stay

Exterior of one of the Epicurean Hotel's 100-year-old apartment buildings in Tampa, Florida
Large groups have the option of apartment suites at the Epicurean in restored 100-year-old apartment buildings. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

With dozens of downtown hotels to choose from, Tampa fits every friend trip budget. There are clusters of chain properties near the cruise port and convention center, putting you steps from Water Street’s shops and restaurants.

Epicurean Hotel, Autograph Collection

If you want to be close to downtown, but in a more residential neighborhood, look at options in and around historic Hyde Park. It’s how I chose the Epicurean Hotel, Autograph Collection. A $21 million expansion project completed in 2024 added 51 rooms to the luxury boutique hotel, including eight one-bedroom suites in two fully restored historic apartment buildings.

Double queen hotel room at the Epicurean Hotel in downtown Tampa
Double queen rooms in the original Epicurean Hotel building feature comfy beds and a window settee. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

The Epicurean ticks all the boxes when it comes to friend group trips:

  • Outdoor pool with plenty of loungers and umbrellas
  • EDGE rooftop bar
  • Onsite Spa Evangeline
  • Élevage SoHo Kitchen & Bar, a destination restaurant with weekend brunch and daily happy hour

And you can’t beat its location on South Howard Avenue. SoHo is home to Tampa’s legendary Bern’s Steak House and a growing list of new bars and restaurants. Steps from the hotel is the Bayshore Boulevard Greenway, perfect for waterfront walking and gawking at multi-million dollar homes and towering luxury condos.

Bottles of pre-mixed cocktail and an antique black phone at the Epicurean Hotel in Tampa, Florida
Pay per pour for room cocktails at the Epicurean (the antique phone actually works). Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

SheBuysTravel Tip: You’ll need to plan months in advance to snag a dinner reservation at Bern’s. Don’t despair if they’re fully booked. The Epicurean Hotel offers a Steak-cation package that includes guaranteed 7 or 8 pm reservations for two.

Getting To and Around Tampa

Large scale pink flamingo statue at the Tampa International Airport
Phoebe, TPA’s large pink flamingo, is a good meeting place at the airport. Photo credit: Cathy Bennett Kopf

Tampa International Airport (TPA) is one of my favorites. It’s small and easy to navigate but has plenty of daily flight options from most major carriers. Thoughtful improvements are added regularly, like the curbside express pickup levels that let you bypass the main terminal area to exit in a jiff if you don’t need to claim a bag.

If you’re renting a car at the airport, take a short tram ride to the rental center. Having a car is convenient for getting around but isn’t necessary if you’re spending your time in downtown Tampa.

Rideshare is readily available and fun transport options, like the pirate water taxi and free streetcar, offer “only in Tampa” experiences you’ll want to include on your trip.

SheBuysTravel Tip: If you do drive, download the Parkmobile app. It’s how you’ll pay for street parking and in the public lots around the city.

FAQs

Does Tampa have a beach?

No. During snowbird/spring break season, expect about a 45-minute to hour drive to get to popular St. Pete Beach. In summer, you can be toes in sand in a half hour or less.

What’s the best time of year for a girls’ trip to Tampa?

Tampa is a year-round destination but summer is exceptionally warm and humid. I prefer visiting during the fall and spring shoulder seasons.

How do I get around Tampa?

I rented a car on my last trip, but rideshare is readily available. Fun options for touring downtown include the electric streetcar and pirate water taxi.

Are there any must-pack items for a Tampa getaway?

Sunscreen and sunglasses, especially during summer. Tampa’s casual but if you’ve booked some of the city’s Michelin-recommended restaurants, you’ll want to dress up. And rain is almost always a possibility. Bring an umbrella, raincoat or poncho.

Is Tampa safe for a girls’ weekend?

Absolutely. If you’re spending most of your time in downtown, it’s very residential, so there are people out and about from sun up to sun down. Observe normal city safety precautions when heading home later at night.

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Cathy Bennett Kopf serves as the Daily Editor of SheBuysTravel, reporting to Editor-in-Chief Cindy Richards. She began travel writing after serving as the unofficial (and unpaid) vacation coordinator for hundreds of family and friend trips. She launched her blog, The Open Suitcase, in 2012 and joined the SBT (formerly TravelingMom) team in 2016. A lifelong resident of New York, Cathy currently resides in the scenic Hudson River Valley. She’s a member of the Society of American Travel Writers, the International Travel Writers Alliance and TravMedia.
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