I finally took a trip with my mom—just us, no kids, no distractions. We sipped, laughed, and soaked up the sun in Temecula, Southern California’s wine country.
Temecula was the right call: easy to get to from Orange County, full of charm, and just luxe enough. We stayed at The Vine House – elegant but relaxed – with big, comfy rooms, private patios and vineyard views. I also toured two other standout B&Bs. If you’re planning a girls’ getaway, these three deserve a spot at the top of your list.

1. The Vine House Bed & Breakfast

My mom and I stayed at The Vine House, and what I loved most was its blend of boutique luxury and laid-back charm—polished without being pretentious. Set along the De Portola Wine Trail, it pairs Cape Cod-style architecture with a cozy, elegant vibe.
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What to expect:
- Vineyard views from nearly every corner of the property
- Private patios, fireplaces, and luxe finishes in each suite
- A gourmet breakfast delivered to your door
- Personal touches from owner Lacey and Robert Britton
- Outdoor firepit with oversized adirondack chairs
- Tennis / pickleball + Bocce ball courts
- Fresh eggs from the on-site chicken coop
- A gorgeous bridal suite that is also available for families.
- Vineyard views from nearly every corner of the property
- 2-for-1 and free wine tastings at nearby wineries
SheBuysTip: Ask Lacey about the renovation. Building a luxury inn while wrangling three little kids? It’s a story you’ll want to hear—and a big part of what makes staying here feel so special.


This B&B is a true family labor of love. Owners Lacey and Robert Britton were actually married on the property years before they purchased it. They renovated it —while raising three small kids—and wrapped just in time for the start of COVID, which catapulted them into sold out bookings immediately. Robert makes the breakfast himself each morning (and it’s delicious), while the kids pitch in by setting up trays and doing other little jobs.
With just eight rooms plus a bridal apartment (great for family stays), the experience is intimate and peaceful. Guests must be 12 or older to stay in the main B&B, though the bridal suite is family-friendly for all ages. Rollaway beds are available for a small upcharge.
2. The New Inn – Modern, Sleek, and Perfect for Design Lovers

The New Inn architecture is clean and contemporary, and the suites are sleek with massive glass doors that slide open to your own private outdoor space.
Vibe: Minimalist, upscale, and designed for serious relaxation. If you’re someone who books a hotel for the aesthetics as much as the amenities, this one’s for you.
Best for: Romantic getaways, solo escapes, or anyone who appreciates modern design over rustic charm.
3. Domaine Chardonnay – Boutique Perfection with Designer Touches

I didn’t stay here, but I did tour it—and wow! This is a true boutique B&B with only 3 gorgeous guest rooms that overlook acres of vines. The owners live on property—she’s a designer, he’s an architect—and their touch is everywhere. This isn’t just a beautiful place to stay; it’s thoughtfully curated down to the last detail. Anyone with an interest in design will love it here!
Vibe: Elegant, French-country meets California wine country. Think neutral tones, rich textures, and a feeling of calm the second you walk in.
Why stay: You want a truly personalized experience, thoughtful design, and prefer an intimate, high-end stay.
True Luxury Includes a Personal Driver

No matter which luxury B&B you choose, pairing your stay with a premium wine tour service like Tour del Vino takes the experience to the next level. My mom and I loved not having to worry about driving around after our tastings—we could just relax, sip, and enjoy the ride.
Our chauffeur (and Tour del Vino’s owner), Sue, was not only incredibly professional, but also a wealth of local insight. She shared stories about the area, insider tips on the wineries, and a thoughtful perspective on the future of Temecula wine country. Sue knows exactly what she’s doing—she started as a black car driver for high-profile celebrities and expanded into wine tours simply because she fell in love with Temecula.
Tour del Vino offers private, customized experiences in luxury vehicles, complete with chilled champagne and access to some of the region’s best-kept secrets. It’s polished, personal, and makes the entire day feel effortless.

SheBuysTip: Ask for a stop at Danza del Sol Winery—Tour del Vino guests can opt for an ATV ride through the vineyards, making your tasting experience even more unforgettable.


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