Mother-daughter trips get a lot of attention but I know that mother-son travel can be just as rewarding. It’s a wonderful opportunity to step out of your daily routines and connect on a deeper level.
When I traveled to Québec City with my son, Dario, it was the perfect mix of exploring, relaxing, and bonding. Below is our list of tips – from both sides – for planning a trip you will both remember (in a GOOD way!).
Overall Tip: Make the Memories Last
This section is sponsored by Mondly, the language-learning app.
Learning a new language together is a great way to extend the trip. You can start independently taking the lessons on Mondly, then practice your skills with one another as you plan your adventures..
During the trip, you can wow your adult child (and they can wow you) with new language skills as you negotiate the terrain, order dinner and buy souvenirs.
After the trip, use those skills to remember the fun you had or to gossip about crazy Uncle Bob without him understanding what you’re saying!
Dario’s Tips (with my comments)
- Say yes a lot and carry all of your mom’s s%$t. NOTE: I own that.
- Four days, max, annually or bi annually. A long weekend is a great option. Group tour could be cool. Cruise quarters are not ideal. NOTE: I am going for annual trips since he put it out there.
- Get a separate room when possible. NOTE: I offered this – at his expense. He declined so I guess it isn’t THAT important.
- Take as many pictures as she wants. NOTE: Show him the pictures before posting. My son isn’t picky but he appreciated the ask.
- Keep an open mind and open heart.
Mom’s Tips
- Plan Together: Collaborate on the itinerary to ensure both of you have a say in the activities and destinations. And if there is something specific that you want to do with your son/daughter, book that ahead of time.
- Make it easy. Even though your kids are technically adults, they are your kids when you travel and they still love being taken care of. I am not saying BUY their attention but I am saying that covering expenses can move the conversation along.
- Observe more, advise less. Similar to Dario’s #5 tip. Keep your advice to a minimum and compliment a lot. Young adults are figuring it out. Let them.
- If sharing a room, ask for privacy when needed. Bring Breathe Right strips and ear plugs in case someone snores. Download a white noise app too- very helpful if needed.
- Do something outdoors. Nature is relaxing. Consider destinations that offer outdoor adventures like hiking or kayaking.
- Try Local Cuisine: Don’t miss out on the local food scene. Trying new foods together is a great conversation starter.
- Capture the Moments: Document the journey with photos and videos, but also make sure to put the phone down and enjoy the moment. After you take your dinner photo, take the phone off the table. Pay attention.
- Be Spontaneous: While planning is essential, leave room for spontaneity. Some of the best travel moments come from unplanned adventures.
- Send a link to “Cat’s in the Cradle.”
- Just go! Even if the trip is not perfect, it will make for great stories in the future.
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