Choosing where to stay in Sonoma shapes how your trip feels. On a girls’ getaway, we were hosted back-to-back at the Inn at Sonoma and the Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn & Spa: one walkable and in town, the other a geothermal hot-spring resort. Here’s how they compare, and how to choose the right stay for your travel style.
Highlights
- Split-stay strategy: Start in town for tasting rooms and shopping, then end your trip soaking in hot springs and slowing down resort-style.
- Inn at Sonoma: Walkable boutique stay two blocks from Sonoma Plaza with complimentary breakfast, daily wine tastings, bikes, and an easy, park-once location.
- Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn: Full-service resort experience featuring natural geothermal mineral pools, a destination spa, Michelin-recognized dining, and shuttle service.
Editor’s Note: The writer was hosted.
Inn at Sonoma

Why Stay Here
- Best for: Walkability, cozy stays, in-town convenience
- Location: Two blocks from Sonoma Plaza
We stayed at the Inn at Sonoma first. We were able to park once and walk everywhere. It’s two blocks from the Plaza and close to so many of the fun things to do in Sonoma: tasting rooms, the Mission, cafés, shops, galleries, and casual dinner options. The hotel is part of Four Sisters Inns, a group known for small-scale boutique properties that feel personal without being fussy.
SheBuysTravel Tip: For ideas for wineries, food stops, hands-on classes, hikes, and more, you’ll find those in our 3-day itinerary.
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Overall Vibe
Friendly and comfortable. The hotel blends modern amenities with cozy bed-and-breakfast warmth (breakfast and snacks are complimentary — be sure to try the cookies!), a hot tub, free bike rentals and a welcoming staff. It works well for a girls’ weekend because it feels homey but not too quiet or formal.
Rooms

Our room was elegantly designed with clean lines, neutral tones and luxurious simplicity. The gas fireplace made me want to hang out and read a book. But there was too much to see!
Standout Features

- Within easy walking distance of the Plaza (shopping, wine tasting rooms, restaurants)
- A genuine boutique feel without boutique pricing
- Outstanding complimentary breakfast
- Complementary wine tasting daily
- Bikes available for guests
- Hot tub
Choose Inn at Sonoma if you want:
- Easy access to Sonoma Plaza
- A boutique feel with friendly service
- A casual, walkable base for wine tasting and exploring the town
- A good value
SheBuysTravel Tip: Buy a day pass to the Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn & Spa for access to the geothermal pools. Includes robe, slippers, and three hours of parking.
Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn

Why Stay Here
- Best for: Spa time, resort amenities, relaxing retreats
- Location: 8-minute drive from the Plaza, shuttle available
The Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn & Spa is different from the Inn at Sonoma in all the right ways. This is a full-service resort built around natural geothermal mineral springs. It is classic Wine Country luxury without feeling over-the-top. The property is leafy and quiet, with multiple pools, a lively lobby and peaceful courtyards.
The Farimont Spa and mineral-spring-fed pools are two of the reasons so many people stay here. The water is restorative; it’s a unique Sonoma experience.

Highlights
- Multiple natural mineral-spring-fed pools that are central to the experience
- Private geothermal whirlpools to rent
- Farimont Spa
- Leafy grounds and peaceful courtyards
- Pet-friendly amenities & special menu
- Complimentary shuttle to Sonoma Plaza
- Bikes
Rooms

Our double queen room was the right kind of practical luxury for a girls’ trip: spacious, polished, and close to the lobby. Rooms are calm and refined with soft neutrals and plush bedding that was great for our girls’ trip: spacious, polished and a large bathroom. We were originally booked in a king room with a fireplace and spa tub (perfect for couples), but switched to a double queen.

Dining + On-Site Amenities

We ate a delicious dinner at the Michelin-recognized Sante. I loved the seared sole with a delicious brown sauce and my friend devoured the prime rib, which she said was one of the best she’s ever eaten. Our waiter knew exactly which wines to pair with our courses, including Dolce to accompany our dessert: popcorn-topped pineapple cake. The popcorn was such an inventive touch, adding a tiny bit of salt and a lot of fun to the dish. This is a definite recommend.
SheBuysTravel Tip: Make a reservation in advance. The restaurant was packed when we were there.

We were too busy to hang out at 38° North, the lively lobby bar, and the pool lounges were closed. There are on-site activities such as daily complimentary wine tastings from local wineries and docent-led hikes (weather permitting) through nearby parks.

Pet-Friendly Perks at the Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn

The Fairmont is genuinely pet-friendly , not just pet-allowed.
- Pet-friendly rooms are available; request bowls and a pet bed in advance or at check-in.
- Pet dining options are offered through Santé and in-room dining, with a dedicated dog menu: Chicken Chow and Dog Day Afternoon.
- Biodegradable waste bags are complimentary and available at the Front Desk.
- On-site pet portraits can be arranged with local artist Brenda McNeill (advance notice recommended).
- Chardonnay Fairmont, the resort’s Canine Ambassador, and the world’s most relaxed pooch (IMHO) is hanging out on site.
- Grounds are walkable and well-suited for morning and evening dog walks.
Choose Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn if you want:
- Spa amenities and natural mineral hot springs
- Multiple pools and on-site activities
- A retreat-style stay where you slow down
- Michelin-rated restaurant
Best of Both Worlds
If you have the time, splitting your stay (like we did) gives you two different Wine Country experiences:
- Start at Inn at Sonoma for exploring
- End at the Fairmont for decompressing
It’s a great rhythm for a girls’ getaway, mother-daughter trip or any long weekend.
FAQs
Is the Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn family-friendly?
Yes, but I think it is best enjoyed by couples, friends, and travelers who want a spa-focused stay.
Is the Inn at Sonoma walkable?
Yes, it’s two blocks from Sonoma Plaza, making it one of the most walkable hotel locations in town.
Does the Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn have hot springs?
Yes. The Fairmont sits on Boyes Hot Springs, a natural geothermal mineral spring, and the spa pools are fed by them.
Which Sonoma hotel is better for a girls’ trip?
Inn at Sonoma is great for exploring; Fairmont is better for pampering.


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